It's obvious that they try to brand males as toxic, then turn around and embrace violent illegals. That's insanity right there. And a good way to get raped and a knife in your neck.
Here's a funny story. When I was a social worker, one of the Caseworkers corresponded with (and later married) a man in prison who had murdered his wife. The caseworker (who also insisted that Bob Dylan got his start in show business as a Christian-Rock performer) told us that her killer/hubby was stoned on pot when he stabbed his wife to death. Several of us placed bets on when that caseworker would be stabbed to death and the tie-breaker would be the number of entry wounds. Sadly, I transferred to another office before the ex-con returned to his evil ways.
It happens in Corrections too. Female corrections officers and counselors fall for inmates. End up quitting and living with the inmates when they’re released. It’s crazy and many times it’s the women you’d least expect. I never understood it. Just go to a bar if you’re that desperate. At least you have a slight chance the guy’s normal. In a prison they’re guaranteed losers and bad guys. They aren’t there because they skipped church on Sundays.
I love your comment, Janis. As a survivor of one failed marriage and a happily married old man in 2026, I think that a relationship between a male prisoner and a female prison guard would be a match made in heaven. The guy would already be programmed to accept instructions and she would be confident enough to continue giving them after the wedding.
Lol! Unfortunately with inmates it’s probably more about the inmate targeting and using a woman they see as easy prey, a woman who has issues to begin with. Most inmates are master manipulators with a whole host of mental disorders and dangerous behavioral disorders. Some inmates target female staff just for the fun of it, compromise and use them and then turn them in when they get bored with it all. It’s a game to them. Doesn’t excuse the women.
I tip my hat to you, Janis. In my years as a CPS Worker and APS Worker, I often felt like flipping a coin to see whether I was dealing with abuse, neglect, or just a typically damaged family. You are very perceptive. Were you in law enforcement?
Nailed it, Mystic
Thank you. I hope you two are well.
It's obvious that they try to brand males as toxic, then turn around and embrace violent illegals. That's insanity right there. And a good way to get raped and a knife in your neck.
An interesting analysis ! I imagine it would be difficult to get truthful survey results to document it though. lol
Thank you.
Women don’t admit they are attracted to violent men.
Here's a funny story. When I was a social worker, one of the Caseworkers corresponded with (and later married) a man in prison who had murdered his wife. The caseworker (who also insisted that Bob Dylan got his start in show business as a Christian-Rock performer) told us that her killer/hubby was stoned on pot when he stabbed his wife to death. Several of us placed bets on when that caseworker would be stabbed to death and the tie-breaker would be the number of entry wounds. Sadly, I transferred to another office before the ex-con returned to his evil ways.
It happens in Corrections too. Female corrections officers and counselors fall for inmates. End up quitting and living with the inmates when they’re released. It’s crazy and many times it’s the women you’d least expect. I never understood it. Just go to a bar if you’re that desperate. At least you have a slight chance the guy’s normal. In a prison they’re guaranteed losers and bad guys. They aren’t there because they skipped church on Sundays.
I love your comment, Janis. As a survivor of one failed marriage and a happily married old man in 2026, I think that a relationship between a male prisoner and a female prison guard would be a match made in heaven. The guy would already be programmed to accept instructions and she would be confident enough to continue giving them after the wedding.
Lol! Unfortunately with inmates it’s probably more about the inmate targeting and using a woman they see as easy prey, a woman who has issues to begin with. Most inmates are master manipulators with a whole host of mental disorders and dangerous behavioral disorders. Some inmates target female staff just for the fun of it, compromise and use them and then turn them in when they get bored with it all. It’s a game to them. Doesn’t excuse the women.
I tip my hat to you, Janis. In my years as a CPS Worker and APS Worker, I often felt like flipping a coin to see whether I was dealing with abuse, neglect, or just a typically damaged family. You are very perceptive. Were you in law enforcement?
Did she die?
I worked in eight counties and never kept in touch with any co-workers.